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Nara Ahn

Nara Ahn

Blended Family & Couples Specialist | Associate Marriage and Family Therapist (AMFT) | Associate Professional Clinical Counselor (APCC)

At a Glance
 

  • Over two decades of lived experience navigating a neurodiverse relationship
     

  • Mother to two beautifully different neurodiverse daughters
     

  • 10+ years as an educator supporting neurodivergent students and their families
     

  • Bilingual in Korean and English, with insight into how culture shapes family and relationship dynamics
     

  • UCLA, Pepperdine, and Cal Baptist educated — three graduate degrees
     

  • Integrates faith and personal values into the therapeutic process when welcomed

I Know What It's Like to Rebuild


Blending a family isn’t something most people plan for when they walk down the aisle. It’s something you find yourself in—after loss, after the painful realization that the life you built must be taken apart and reimagined into something new.

 

I understand what it takes to create stability, safety, and connection when the ground has shifted beneath everyone’s feet.

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That lived experience—of rebuilding a family from the inside—is the foundation of the work I do with blended families. Not theory. Not a textbook version of stepfamily dynamics. But the real, daily, humbling practice of holding a family together as it takes on a new shape.

When the Shape of Your Family Changes

 

Blended families face challenges that other families don’t—and those challenges exponentially multiply when neurodivergence is part of the picture.

 

A neurodivergent child who already struggles with regulation may find it even harder to adjust to new people, routines, and authority figures. A co-parent who processes the world differently may not be able to collaborate in the ways you need. Cultural expectations around family, loyalty, and roles can add yet another layer of pressure—often unspoken.

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As a parent trying to hold everything together. As someone navigating a relationship where neurological differences made communication nearly impossible. As a Korean American woman whose culture holds strong ideas about what family should look like—and who had to grieve the gap between expectation and reality.

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If your blended family is struggling, know this: it’s not because you’re doing it wrong. Blending families is one of the hardest things humans do—and no one gives you a manual.

 

But there is hope. You can find peace and even joy as you redefine what a “perfect” family looks like for your own life.

Parenting Two Beautifully Different Daughters


My two daughters have taught me more about flexibility, patience, and humility than any degree ever could.

 

Navigating cultural expectations, neurodivergent differences, and the family challenges that come with varying learning styles and needs has required finding a delicate balance and structure that aligns with our values.

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Parenting them through a family transition has been its own education. What grounds one daughter can unsettle the other; what feels like helpful structure to one can feel suffocating to the other.

 

I’ve learned—sometimes the hard way—that there is no one-size-fits-all approach to parenting through change. You have to meet each child where their nervous system actually is, not where you wish it were.

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This is the lens I bring to my work with blended families. I understand that every person in the household—every child, every parent, every stepparent—has a unique nervous system, a distinct set of needs, and a different relationship to the changes happening around them.

 

My role is to help you see all of those needs clearly and build a family rhythm that truly works for the people in it.

Growing Up Between Cultures


I grew up in a low-income household as the daughter of Korean immigrants. My culture taught me that family is everything—that you sacrifice for it, hold it together, and don’t air its struggles publicly.

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Having navigated the complexities of neurodivergent relationships, parenting, and blending families across cultures, I bring to therapy a depth of lived experience that extends beyond what any textbook can teach.

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If you’re building a blended family across cultures—with different traditions, languages, and expectations around roles and loyalty—I understand that complexity from the inside.

 

I work with families to honor multiple cultural perspectives without asking anyone to abandon who they are.

How I Work

 

I take a strengths-based, neurodiversity-affirming approach grounded in Acceptance and Commitment Therapy and nervous-system-centered practices.

 

My work with blended families focuses on building safety first — because without safety, no one in the household can relax enough to connect.

 

We work on communication, role clarity, co-parenting coordination, and creating rituals and routines that give everyone in the family a sense of belonging.

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Who I Work With
 

  • Blended families navigating the transition of bringing two households together

  • Co-parents working to coordinate across different homes and different neurotypes

  • Stepparents trying to find their role without overstepping or disappearing

  • Families where one or more children are neurodivergent and struggling with the transition

  • Couples in second marriages who want to build something different this time

  • Multicultural and bilingual families blending across cultural expectations

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What to Expect in Session


I communicate directly and warmly. My sessions are structured, collaborative, and focused on practical strategies you can use right away—not just insight for its own sake.

 

I accommodate neurodivergent needs, including movement, fidgeting, reduced eye contact, and other forms of structured support when helpful. I understand that each person in a blended family adjusts at their own pace. Together, we work with that reality rather than against it.

License & More
 

  • Associate Marriage and Family Therapist, #160292

  • Associate Professional Clinical Counselor, #21068

  • Master of Science in Counseling Psychology — California Baptist University (2025)

  • Master of Arts in Psychology — Pepperdine University (2012)

  • Master of Arts in Education — Pepperdine University (2004)

  • Bachelor of Arts in English — UCLA (2003)

  • Supervised by Dr. Harry Motro, LMFT #53452

  • Employed by New Path Family of Therapy Centers (providing services through Blended Family Counseling Center)

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